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“But the most striking aspect of Aura might be its depictions of living with abuse. The popular image of the abused woman is a woman who is completely alone, out on an island. But the reality is often something very different. Hillary has people around her. Parents. A brother and sister, somewhere, and friends. Why isn’t anyone doing anything to help? Why do they just let this happen? But that’s the nature of the beast: an abuser will psychologically isolate you, make you feel ashamed and responsible, scared to reach out. You’ll think it’s all your fault; you’ll think you’ve made your bed, so you should lie in it, that people will judge you if you share. Sometimes it’s even worse if you do share. After escaping with her son to a women’s shelter and spending some time there, Hillary does eventually go back to his father. It’s a horrifying episode, but it’s emblematic of what so many people get wrong about domestic abuse: the police often do nothing. Trying to get out of an abusive relationship with limited resources, no money, anything save an absolute identity wipe and witness protection program, often exposes the abused to much worse consequences.” (Mila Jaroniec, Southwest Review, Oct 2022).